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Who am i?

I have been lying in bed, faithfully every single night, thinking... " Who am I? What am I doing recently and why am I doing it?" Someone once told me... "Wei Xin... You are too kind... You keep thinking about others... You should be a little selfish..." Sigh... Then someone also said... "Wei Xin... You are ignorant and childish..."

This I ask all of you... What do you all think I am? I really wanna know... Be truthful... Dun tag but please leave a comment so it stays there for good... Thank you all...

What kind of a person am I? Can some kind soul help me? I cannot always be the one helping... I need help too... I ain't perfect...

9 comments:

meyaka88 said...

let me be the 1st! here goes: most of the time u are caring, kind... almost perfect but yet not there yet... as i said no one is perfect... infact everyone says tat... so try being selfish for awhile... try toking bad abt others... not behind their backs but RIGHT INFRONT of them.... just kick their bloody arse, alright? i know it's bad for me to tell u these... but cmon! u did so much for others... make urself happy okay?!

Anonymous said...

u are just another living thing on earth by the name of FONG WEIXIN. maybe being selfish once a while is alright. different ppl have different perspective. some ppl love the way u are! no point changing ur good traits to compromise the minority. u have to live for yourself, not for others.

Anonymous said...

Wei Xin, Wei Xin.. Hellooo.. Weeee!! Alright, serious.. Since you seem so serious in your post. Lets be a little blunt shall we? Sometimes, you've got this huge tendency to make a lot of noise (you know, for attention purposes) and yes, it can quite get on my nerves. You're nice, caring though at times, a little TOO caring.. Haha! Of course, my dear boy, you're nice to talk to, I wouldn't say the nicest but yes, nice all the same. Notice why we're still in touch? That's cos you matter. Someone I'd very much like to keep always as a buddy. Don't be a selfish brat like me, I don't see how being mean would make you a happier person actually. Hahah! Smile always! Cheers dude!

kusturica said...

You are surreal. Go with it.

Anonymous said...

well.. i think you are a very kind person. i know that once in a while you will play and joke around in a childish manner and stuffs.. and can get quite irritating after some time( you must have seen how many times have i been irritated by you ). i know you had no bad intentions, in fact, your intentions were good. you always try to make people around you happy. the only time you 'turned' to the dark side was when you hated someone. you 'secretly' cursed that person in front of me. but it's fine. who wouldn't do that to someone he/she hates? have a nice day. i think i don't know you well. heh.

Johann Faust said...

So, you think there is something wrong with being kind? Being good is a thankless job isnt it? No one notices, you are just like a floormat... but if one day JUST ONE DAY you stop being nice, they will notice. Everyone is different and you are who you are. There is no need to stress yourself over that. Cherrios, good luck for the future, from the sound of things, you're going to need it.

`chunmeielle said...

oh well.. wad an interesting question I must say.. here's my share of thought..=D

Seriously, I believe that everyone has he/her own personality and one can never judge whether he/ she is exceptionally nice or irritating.. why do u care so much about how other ppl think of u wei xin? Ask yourself.. are you happy with who you are or are you just trying to be wad other's expects of you.. so wad if you're nice today and mean tomorrow?? that wont label you as someone with split personality.. woudl it? seriouly if a person judges u that way.. that person is way too SHALLOW.. am I right? Wads wrong being nice anyway? from the way you put it.. I dun see why you will say you are nice because when someone is nice, he doesnt ask for anything in return but does it out of love/ concern and not for to let ppl know-"hi, I am wei xin and I'm nice" haha
Be yourself alright? althought its good to receive comments to improve yourself.. however.. you might change into wad others expects you to be or like you to be and the wei xin thats in you.. is gone...I would den think its a shame..
You dun have to worry.. one day if you have a gf.. you will realise that your good points are ur gf's flaws and ur flaws are her strong points.. that is the way a relationship should be.. if you are perfect all rounded.. what kinda person will it makes you? not onli those it applies to ur gf but to ur friends too =D

hope this help my dear friend =D

Anonymous said...

An obvious ploy to dig for compliments.

Wei Xin said...

hmmmz... now i wonder who that can be... obviously he thinks quite shallowly and does not understand what i am going through now... so who are you to judge me like that? Get a life buddy... and try to aquire something called feelings....